Gifting Shares to Your Children? How to Protect Them from Divorce Risks (2025 Guide)
Gifting shares to your children is one of the most effective ways to pass on family wealth, support succession planning and reduce future inheritance tax. But many parents overlook a major risk:
What happens to those shares if your child gets divorced?
Without the right structure, shares gifted outright can become marital assets, meaning part of your family business could be lost in a settlement.
The good news is that you can gift shares to your children while still protecting them from divorce, creditors, and long‑term financial risk by using the correct trust structure.
This guide explains how it works.
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Why Gifting Shares Outright Can Be Risky
When you transfer shares directly to your child:
- They become the legal owner
- The shares form part of their personal estate
- They may be included in divorce proceedings
- You lose control over how the shares are used, voted, or sold
Even the strongest marriages can face challenges. With divorce rates sitting around one in three, protecting family business assets is simply good planning.
The Most Effective Solution: A Discretionary Trust
A discretionary trust allows you to gift shares without giving your child full ownership, creating a protective layer around family assets.
How it works
- The trust owns the shares
- Your child is a beneficiary, not the legal owner
- You (or trusted individuals) act as trustees, maintaining control
Because the beneficiary does not own the shares outright, they are far harder for courts to treat as marital property in a divorce.
This is one of the most reliable ways to protect business shares, inheritance, and wealth across generations.
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Why a Trust Protects Against Divorce
Courts may consider the trust as a future resource, but cannot divide or transfer assets that the beneficiary does not legally own.
This means:
- Your child’s spouse has no automatic claim to the shares
- Business control stays with trustees
- Dividends, voting rights, and access can be managed as you choose
A discretionary trust gives you control, flexibility, and protection that you lose with an outright gift.
Real Example: A Family Business Saved £800,000
A family business plans to gift 25% of the company to their son, who recently joined the firm. Instead of transferring shares directly, they:
- Created a discretionary trust
- Named their son as a beneficiary
- Retained trustee control
Years later, their son divorced. Because he never legally owned the shares, they were protected from claims, safeguarding more than £800,000 in business value.
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Additional Benefits of Gifting Shares via Trust
1️⃣
Inheritance Tax (IHT) Planning
- Shares transferred into trust may qualify for Business Relief, reducing IHT exposure.
- Holdover relief may allow you to defer capital gains tax (CGT) on the transfer.
2️⃣
Control Over Business Decisions
- Trustees retain voting power and control over share use.
- Distributions can be altered for tax efficiency or personal circumstances.
3️⃣
Long‑Term Succession Planning
- Protects the business across generations.
- Prevents premature ownership or misuse of shares.
4️⃣
Protection from Creditors
- Trust assets are typically shielded from personal debts, disputes, or bankruptcy.
What Happens If You Don’t Use a Trust?
If you gift shares directly:
- They can be assessed as marital assets in divorce
- You risk an ex‑spouse becoming a shareholder
- The business may face forced buyouts, voting disputes, or reputation damage
- Family wealth becomes vulnerable to future partners or creditors
A discretionary trust removes these risks.
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How to Gift Shares Safely Using a Trust: Step‑by‑Step
1. Get Professional Legal & Tax Advice
Trusts must be drafted correctly to maximise protection and reliefs.
2. Value the Shares Properly
A formal business valuation supports the transaction.
3. Transfer Shares Into the Trust
Where eligible, use holdover relief to avoid immediate CGT.
4. Prepare a Letter of Wishes
Sets guidance for trustees on how your child should benefit.
5. Maintain Proper Trust Records
Trusts require annual reporting and careful compliance.
Key Questions to Consider Before Gifting Shares
- Should your child’s spouse be excluded as a beneficiary?
- Who will act as neutral trustees?
- Will your child need income from the shares?
- Do you need separate trusts for multiple children?
- Will Business Property Relief apply?
These decisions shape how effectively your trust protects the family business.
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FAQ: Gifting Shares and Trusts
Q1: Can shares given to my child be taken in a divorce?
A: Yes. If you gift shares directly to your child, they become part of their personal estate and may be considered a marital asset in divorce proceedings. That means a portion of the shares could be awarded to their ex-spouse.
Q2: How does a discretionary trust protect shares from divorce?
A: In a discretionary trust, your child is a beneficiary, not a legal owner. The trust holds the shares, so they are usually not treated as marital property, offering a stronger layer of protection in case of divorce.
Q3: Can I still get tax relief if I gift shares into a trust?
A: Yes. If the shares qualify for Business Asset Holdover Relief, you may be able to defer capital gains tax (CGT) at the time of the transfer. Inheritance Tax (IHT) benefits may also apply if structured properly.
Q4: Will my child still receive income from the shares in the trust?
A: That’s up to the trustees. They can choose to pay dividends or income to your child, based on the trust deed and any Letter of Wishes. This ensures flexibility without giving up control.
Q5: Should I exclude my child’s spouse from the trust?
A: In most cases, yes. To limit risk, many families exclude in-laws from being beneficiaries. This makes it clearer to the court that the trust is for your bloodline and not intended for marital distribution.
Q6: What are the downsides of using a trust?
A: Trusts come with administrative duties, possible tax filing, and sometimes additional legal costs. However, these are often outweighed by the long-term control and asset protection they provide.
Q7: Can I still vote on company decisions if I put shares into a trust?
A: Yes, if you appoint yourself (or a trusted individual) as a trustee, you can retain voting rights and influence in the business while protecting the shares.
Talk to Our Family Business & Tax Planning Specialists
We help families:
- Protect business shares from divorce and disputes
- Reduce inheritance tax exposure
- Use trusts and reliefs effectively
- Build long‑term, multi‑generational wealth plans
If you’re considering gifting shares — or want to review your current structure — we can help you do it safely and tax‑efficiently.
👉 Book a free consultation with Nuvo’s tax and estate planning experts.
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